Athens Family Photographer :: The Moons

Julie and I have known each other now for years. I remember the very first time that Spencer and I went over their house for dinner. She had just had her first child and we had a great time! The idea of children was new to Spencer and I, although we knew that soon we’d be trying for our first as well. We had so much to learn about being parents!

We grew closer and closer to the Moons through our churches Young Married’s group. We would gather every Wednesday at the Garcia’s house to share our hearts, our lives, our mistakes, our victories. I miss those times…

Joe and Spencer also worked together for some time in Joe’s business…Mobile IT. Spencer loved working with him because Joe had a way of always encouraging Spencer and making him feel like a million bucks…even if they weren’t making that much money yet! Thanks Joe for always lovin’ up on Spencer…well, not in THAT way. You know what I mean!

Julie is also a photographer in town… a hot one! We got our start together. Although I had taken photography classes in college, digital was new to both of us so we took a class at the Lyndon House together. Our teacher didn’t teach us too much, but we still had fun! She also took pictures of me pregnant with Xander and most importantly, took the last family picture of Spencer and the kids before his second surgery. I cannot thank her enough for those pictures….

Love you guys!

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No more grief, please.

I know I’ve been slightly M.I.A. from my blog recently. Although I’m out of school for the summer, I feel busier than ever. Kids are home most of the time, photography business is great, and many friends are suffering and in need.

This past week one of my newest and dearest friends lost her husband to neuroendocrine carcinoma–a fancy type of cancer that ravaged his body and robbed him of life for the past two years. Although I didn’t know Jon before he was sick, I knew he was a great father to his three children and loved his family with his whole heart. As I sat next to his bedside with Hope and some other close friends and family members, watching and listening to Jon struggle to breathe, I couldn’t help but wonder why in my short 30 years, I’ve been witness to so many deaths. Literally. I have to believe that there is a higher purpose for this all. If you have any insights, please share…because sometimes I wonder how much more I can endure.

I could go on and on about his wife Hope–her strength, perseverance, faith and her similar philosophy to enjoy life and make the most of it. This family was no stranger to tragedy–their daughter lost the use of her legs at 3 years old in a tragic car accident. Hope is now a widowed mother of three…with one in a wheelchair. Please keep her in your prayers and she continues this journey.

I’m always amazed at how NOT easy life is, but ever grateful that God has always promised that if we rely on him we can pull through. He never promised that life would be easy and simple. In fact, quite the opposite. Psalm 34:19 A righteous man may have many troubles, but the LORD delivers him from them all. John 16:33“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

To preserve memories for her children, I took pictures at his Life Celebration Ceremony…(none of us like the f-word). You can see the mixture of pain and joy on people’s faces. It’s so hard to lose someone in this life but at services like this we can rejoice knowing they are now in a better place than even we are. I’m reminded to keep enjoying this life–to rejoice in my sufferings–and most importantly to look forward to the life after this one.

Jon you were loved by many and will be missed by many. My heart aches and rejoices with you, Hope. I love you. God will provide…and so will I:)


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THE Warrior Dash

What do you get when you combine loads of 15,000 people, loads of adrenaline, mud, fire and viking helmets? Well, the Warrior Dash, of course!

I’ve been eagerly anticipating this event for quite a while now! I’ve had my outfit planned out…remember Xena, the Warrior Princess? Yeah, that was me last weekend…I even cut bangs! How twisted am I? Cindy dressed up as “Wilhelmina Wallace”–even donning a kilt and blue face paint. We had our warrior cries worked out–me screaming “alalalalallalal” and she yelling “freeeeeeeedoooooommm”. You seriously can’t get any cornier than this!

Me, the kids and a couple friends and I made the drive up to North Georgia, Mountain City, to be exact. My bff Meg traveled along with us, and even got the hook up on a cabin (Thank Ken!). Meg graciously volunteered to help watch our children while we raced. Next year, she’ll be one of us though.

The drive up was fairly uneventful until we arrived at “Goats on the Roof”. Yes, in fact, there is a tourist attraction called that…and yes, there are goats living on the roof. I must say, it was a pretty cool and fascinating place. These goats have it made–they even have a pimped out goat hotel and little hanging bridges to travel from roof to roof. We bought goat food and worked all sorts of contraptions to get the food up to the goats–whether by using pulleys or riding a bike to work a conveyor belt. Cindy also found a disgusting jelly bean “game” to play…you must go buy this. It’s hilarious. I made my child eat a barf-flavored jelly bean. No lie.

Ok, I digressed. Back to the race. After putting the final touches on our costumes in the morning, driving on this long, windy dirt road that literally took us over a mountain, we arrived at our destination. While walking down the streets of Mountain City, Cindy and I realized that we might be the only two dressed up. “Surely not…”, we thought, slightly mortified. Well, thankfully, after walking in we realized that compared to some, our outfits were pretty tame. There were men wearing little league outfits that were skin tight (ewwww!), a couple rednecks in plaid shirts and tight jorts (jean shorts), men dressed up as the dudes from the movie 300 (my personal favs!), women dressed up as super heroes, and even a couple people wearing nearly nothing but their birthday suits.

Our race time was 1 pm. At 12:40 we lined up, awaiting our warrior fate. The race started with a blast from two fire torch thingys. It started with a run, but very quickly turned into the obstacle course we knew it would be. There was the plank we walked to cross the lake, then we had to trudge through the water/sludge to get to the other side. After getting on dry land, we ran through tires (think football drill), then jumped over 3 walls (think army). Some more running/forrest bush-whacking. We quickly arrived at a cargo-rope wall that you had to climb up and then back down (at least 30 feet high). After climbing up a rope wall, we had to crawl through a long black tube and then maneuver through at least 10 junkyard cars (climb through/over/in between them). Some more trail running through the woods was followed by a disgusting mud-slide downhill and worst of all, we had to army crawl in the mud/slime under barbed wire. After that, we were back in the lake trying to get over these huge logs that were floating. Back up on small slope, and then we ran to the finish….which was preceded by two walls (ok, they just felt that high) of fire that we had to jump over!

I’ve added some pictures of my own, but if you want to see official race pictures, click here!

Think you can hang? Are you a warrior too? I want to hear some warrior-isque stories!

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Escalate Live 2010 :: Stand Up, Stand Out

Last week I had the immense pleasure of attending a photography conference, of sorts, called Escalate Live 2010. Dane Sanders, along with 7 other photographers whom I admire (ok…stalk) would be speaking. I wouldn’t be taught technique or how to use my camera. This was going to be different. The goal of Escalate Live was simple: Get ready to delve deep as our speakers invite you explore topics on vision, strategy, identity. Who are you as a photographer? What were you made to do? How are you moving your vision everyday into a reality? Through the two days we hope you will be challenged, inspired, and in the end… changed.

I unwrapped myself from my children at 5 am and snuck out to the car to drive to the airport. The conference was in Newport Beach, California, near Los Angeles. I flew out two days early to spend time with family and friends (I’ll blog on this later!). Escalate Live was attended by photographers from across the country as well as thousands of people online who watched it live.

I had the honor of personally meeting and speaking with Jasmine Star, Jessica Claire, Dane Sanders, Jerry Ghionis, Becker, David Jay, Jeremy Cowart, and Julianne Kost.

More than anything, what I took from the conference (besides aspiring to be amazingly talented and take beautiful pictures) is to be FOR each other as photographers. Sort of a “pay it forward” mentality…or in Becker’s words “A rising tide raises all ships”. Or at least I think he said that.

I want to build relationships–no, friendships–with other photographers. I want to help photographers others succeed. I want to learn from them. I want to help my client’s let their light shine. I want to give back. I was so impressed by how all these photographers in their own way, continually give back–to other photographers, to their communities, to those in need. Reminds me of Phil. 2: 3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. 4Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

The question I keep turning over and over in my mind and one which I haven’t quite figured out is: I am passionate about my faith in God…how do I combine this with my passion for photography? I have some ideas, but would love to hear yours too, if you have any. Feel free to comment!

Let it shine!

me and J*


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